“Motivation is like food for the brain. You cannot get enough in one sitting. It needs continual and regular top ups” – Peter Davies
You are not motivated by what anyone say or do but are motivated by what you make out of what is said or done.
It explains why no two persons are motivated by the same set of words or actions. Also why some words or actions that did not motivate you in the past now motivates you. It’s simply growth in your perception of words and actions.
Grow your perception to develop a more rational mind.